One Hell of a True Rant

More and more of what you are going to keep finding (and will soon start increasing at an alarming rate) is that men today do not want a relationship, per say, with American women anymore, be it a steady girlfriend and certainly not marriage, because women today are simply out of touch, do not share any values with humanity as a whole, and are damaged goods; as worthless an old broken washing machine, wherein the replacement parts are no longer even available.

Women in 2005 do not "get it." They are far too demanding, far too critical, feel an overwhelming sense of "entitlement" because of the endless feminist propaganda they are bombarded with through the media, attorneys, and state programs. They want "independence" (which really means working at a frivolous part-time job, answering to no one, to be completely unaccountable for their actions) while walking on the backs of men as their financial support, or worse, as a monthly check they have extorted through the bizarre world of "family court" after a divorce. American women have simply left the human race.

American women want a man to be "traditional," yet seemed to have lost touch with reality.. strangely oblivious to the fact that if you want a man to play a traditional role, you would have to play the traditional counterpart. Women today have ascribed to this notion of "empowerment," which translates into being far too bossy, self absorbed and self centered, in addition to all the negatives one associates with women since the dawn of time; pettiness, cattiness, manipulative, confusing sex with love, grossly superficial (any and all value is simply placed in something's appearance) back stabbing, irrational, let their emotions dictate even the most important decisions resulting in disaster, (in direct contradiction to the fantasy on T.V. and movies, that create the illusion that women are always "intelligent" and "wise" in any given situation) are "above" criticism (once again, an unfortunate byproduct of feminist coaching) completely fake "niceness" (just to get in the door like a salesman) .. my god, the list goes on forever!

The point is, there is nothing even like-able about women today, much less loveable, and Feminism is to blame. If Feminism were to suddenly end tomorrow, it would still take at least two generations to undo the damage that women have done to themselves. To be fair, I have met women who do realize they are to blame for their own misery and the breakdown of the American family. I worked with a twenty-six year old woman who once said, "women are their own worst enemies." Yet ironically, she was one of the most obnoxious and caustic women I have ever met. So it would seem that even when women realize the truth, they are hopelessly lost for any answer to the problem. Feminism destroyed marriage, the family, the business world, religion- you name it- because it was flawed from the very beginning in that it offered no actual alternative system; women do not have any interest outside of their financial and reproductive freedoms. And come on, let's get real here- the vast majority of women have never even cared about, or even possess the mental capacity for real political debate or comprehension, but women today are so dumbed down, most of them probably don't even really know what Feminism is. Sure, we will always have the stray Hillary Clintons, but they do not change the rule. An example of how most women's I.Q.'s are rarely above room temperature are the ads on television for birth control that actually have to explain to women that birth control products will not prevent the spread of sexually transmitted diseases.

The quest for true freedom was a noble thing, yet that was never the true desired goal of Feminism. But freedom is not freedom when it comes at someone else's expense (i.e. men) The only time most women will even entertain this "debate" is from the angle that somehow men are now simply "intimidated" by a "strong" woman. "Strong" translated from women speak means a confrontational nightmare of a human being with all the charm of a garbage truck, who though they may "get their way" today through loud demands and legal threats, is only making enemies along the way, isolating themselves and creating a truly treacherous world around themselves, while driving quality men away. I suppose you could argue that American men today are, in fact, intimidated by the modern American female, that is if your definition of intimidation is complete revulsion.. the same someone would have for a black widow spider. There is a world of difference between being intimidated and wanting to just simply hurry up and get a verbal exchange, business deal, or quick romp in the sack over with because of the person's hopelessly broken down dysfunction you're dealing with. Why women today do not understand this simple distinction is a mystery, possibly the result of their inability to rationalize. So, in the end, there was nothing wrong with the idea of women having more freedoms, the enormous problems women have today were created by the side effects of Feminism.

You'll probably think, "well, I'm "happily" married and know tons of other men and women in "happy" relationships." Well, there is a word that is missing from that sentence, and that word is today. You (or they) are "happily" (together) today, but what about two, maybe five years from now? Women who I never even dreamed capable of the viciousness and betrayal they suddenly ravaged on everyone around them shock me everyday. For you see, this is far, far beyond any "character" issue- this a condition of an entire "movement" (Feminism) that is horribly flawed to the very core from the bottom up. Realizing this clears up all the confusion. So the statement "not all women are like that" becomes obsolete. I'm sure not all violent convicted felons are in fact violent, and we all know for a fact that not every chamber in a gun has a bullet when someone is playing Russian roulette, but who has the luxury of taking that chance? No one. This is about survival, so get smart.

Not only is there absolutely nothing that a man can gain from a "relationship" of any kind with an American woman, it is now down right dangerous and even stupid to marry an American woman; sooner or later she'll simply dump you when the wind starts blowing a different direction through her head (fickle) then financially rape you in divorce court, while making false accusations of god knows what. Worse, they may only be in a marriage with you in order to pillage your very life- putting on a good show for a few years so it looks legit. American women today, no matter what they look like, are hideous monsters; the most god-awful, most horrible people in human history, yet they keep cluelessly chugging along in their own little cutesy fantasy world of wedding magazines, shopping malls, gossip, teddy bears, drearily dull cell phone conversations, (sounding not unlike quaking ducks) puppies, and babies.

Therefore American men are turning their backs on American women. American women are the gas-guzzling, oil dripping, noisy, over sized, and high maintenance 1973 Chevy Impala nobody wants. Read the stories of American women taking jobs in foreign countries and finding that no man outside of the U.S. wants anything to do with them. And then let's face it, women are just too insane to face reality.. but there is hope- thanks to the Internet and the world becoming "smaller" everyday, it's easier to meet quality women who are actually marriage material in other countries. The difference between women from countries with traditional values and American women is the difference between a well balanced, home cooked meal and a meal at McDonald's. Like McDonald's, American women are nothing more than junk filled with bad chemicals, it's bad for you and will kill you. Though it is still legal to sell trash food, it's dangerous to eat it everyday.

So it's not all gloom and doom and complete hopelessness- there is now finally a light at the end of the tunnel. I've already made two trips out of the country recently and have met some or the most wonderful women in my life! Sure, once I marry someone from out of the country and bring them back here, there is a good chance they will become corrupted, but one thing is for certain, that a woman raised in a family from a culture that stresses strong family values with a mother and a father, is light years ahead of any worthless American woman raised by what amounts to nothing more than a stupid whore "single mother." It is so beautiful... intelligent American men can now completely shut out American women entirely and cut them out like the cancer they are.

Every year is going to get progressively worse for women in America in their relationships; the quality of men who will sleep with them (and that is all American men want from American women now, a drive-thru quickie) will keep steadily declining. So you'll find that men are simply turning their backs on American women and walking away (or avoiding them altogether, the smartest thing to do). They just went too far and now it's over. Women just haven't woken up yet. Just look around you and see how miserable today's women are. They all need the guidance of a man, but they, along with our government have driven a wedge between men and women. American women now are diseased and on dangerous psychiatric drugs. For God's sake, the next woman you meet here in the U.S., tell them to get to a clinic and do society a favor; invest in a vibrator and a lots of cats, and get the hell away! Finally, best of luck finding your bride overseas, it's going to be so much simpler than you think.

Update! The great jtest28 himself, also went foreign last January 2008! I went to Ukraine, to be exact. And I couldn't beat the women off of me with a shitty stick! And they are soooo far superior to American women. Over there, MEN are the commodity, not the women. The man fucks who he wants to and ignores who he wants to. And the women there are far more romantic and weren't into only one night stands like American women. And I'll tell you guys, girls there don't flirt with you for no reason, unlike American women. Did you know that in Australia, in the last ten years, 100,000 Australian men have married foreign women? And keep in mind, that country has only 1/15th our population! So thats a VERY big chunk of men gone off the market for Australian women. That's the equivalent of 1.5 million American men marrying foreign women! The Australian government even funded a study to find out why so many men have done this, and the number one response the men gave when asked why not just marry an Aussie girl, was you can't marry someone who won't date you! These guys said that Australian girls would flirt with them, then when they asked them out, they would start screaming at them and/or call the police on them. Or start belittling the man and laugh in his face. And foreign women never behave like that. The worst thing that would happen with a foreign woman, is she says no, and even then, she is very, very polite about it, if she even says no at all! This really is much the same experience a number of American men have told me about as well. The good news is, most foreign women are not even remotely close to being like this. You give them a compliment, and they just melt. Hell, the first date I went on, the girl asked me out for the second! Then she called all the office staff, who worked for the agency, and went on about how much she liked me. She raved about me so much, that one of the female interpreters at the office, even refused to set me up on any more dates unless I went out with this one girl again! Yet, in the States, women don't like men like me for dating, maybe for sex, or for protection, or to get my attention, anything BUT for dating or marriage. So guys, let these American women have their little Goddamned bi-sexual flings, which they do to piss men off. And let them keep themselves alone for years at a time. Because I can tell you that when they find out you have gone foreign, it's the BEST REVENGE I FUCKING EVER IMAGINED. I like wearing a T-shirt that says, "My girlfriend is Ukrainian", and watching how the American women stomp their feet out of rage. Hey, they could have had me, but didn't want a relationship. That reminds me of a friend of mine who married a Ukrainian women, and he says American women always come along and try to break up the relationship. LOL I bet so, anything to stop a man from being happy.

And here are some pictures from my trip:

On my next trip, I'll take far better pictures and there will be more of them. And I may even bring my video camera. You would get a kick out of these women's sexy accents. And here is a website by a guy I know who went to Russia. Just look at the pictures he took while he was there!

Here are a few of the women I met, Oksana, Inna, and Svetlana. They are holding gifts that I had sent to them, and the agency likes sending pics to its clients. The first two women are from Kharkov, where I went on my trip and I met both these ladies. The woman on the far right is from another city that I may visit in the future.

Oksana	Inna	Svetlana
This is, believe it or not, the usual way women there dress. Which is to say, very nicely! There are no fat slob women who look and smell like sewer rats. When I was visiting Ukraine, it was like being inside a Victoria's Secret catalogue. And I would see 6 feet tall blonds with men who were no more than 5 feet tall. I even saw women who looked like super models, trying to make out with drunk guys in dark alleys, while the men were actually resisting them! See, things are pretty much the opposite in Eastern Europe. American women have no idea how good they really have it. I even read an article by an American woman who spent two years in Moscow. She reported back that the only sex she could get was with lesbians. And no way in hell could she get a date with a man. Two words instantly come to mind, GENDER RATIO. So America is NOT the place to be if you're a man. In America, women have the dating advantage. And they know it too. That's why they don't want the excess men in America to find wives elsewhere. Because if enough of us did so, there would no longer be the abundance of men which makes their dating lives so easy. They are afraid that if there were to ever be a true man shortage, they may actually have to compete for men like Eastern European women have to.

Here are some words from an American man who actually moved away to a European country. And though it wasn't in Eastern Europe, it was still better than American women. Here's what he said:

Hi all, I'm Jon. I'm a youthful 40, in great shape ,and own a few web businesses. I lived for about 10 years in Northern Europe, where I have friends I still visit; and I'm considered quite social and charming there. But...I moved home to the US a couple of years ago, and for the first time in many years, found that I had virtually no social or dating life.

Perhaps it's because I stayed gone so long, but when I returned to the US, it seemed socially awkward, shallow, immature and (if I'm honest) culturally backwards.

I appreciate Winston doing this site because frankly, I know he's right. Before I moved abroad my social life in the US was a 2 out of 10 (at best). When I moved abroad all that changed dramatically, and I made true friends and dated gorgeous women. Actually, I lost my visa to stay in Europe, otherwise I probably would never have come back.

I've been back a couple of years and I've really tried to make things happen here. But now I have finally had enough. This year (2009) I'm planning to leave the country. I haven't decided exactly where I'll go yet (I'm considering a few places), but I do know that I'm definitely leaving, and "sooner rather than later."

I have seen the quality of my social and dating life go down significantly here in the US, and frankly, life is too short for this bullshit. You know what they say: once you get used to champagne, it is tough to go back to kool-aide.

If anyone wants to chat and/or share info about moving abroad, please be in touch. I'm social and cooperative by nature (as opposed to paranoid and competitive). Perhaps that's WHY I don't fit in the US?

Be well,
Jon

Here is yet another American man who also has spent time in foreign countries:

I completely agree with you mobstersreport. I have a very similar situation. I'm 40, no kids, divorced years ago, in excellent shape, own my own web biz, well-travailed and educated, but I'm finding myself "stuck" in America with practically no social life whatsoever.

I left the US once before, back in the 90s -- I moved to Scandinavia, and discovered what I had been missing all those years. I'm a decent looking guy with a good head on his shoulders, but I never had any luck with American women whatsoever. But in Europe, I discovered I could finally be myself, and there were All kinds of attractive, natural, intelligent women interested in me.

Unfortunately, I lost my European residence visa a few years ago and had to move back to the US. Since that time, my social life has gotten consistently worse, and I find it hard to relate to the brain-dead mentality that dominates here ( I'm in Florida by the way).

Ironically, women that I wouldn't give a second glance to in Europe seem to think they're too good for me here in the states. Of course, many of them wind up married to some abusive inbred redneck, and then divorced with a few kids in a couple of years. You reap what you sow...

So I've find myself in the same boat you're in -- looking for way out, and just trying to decide where to go and how to proceed forward. I'm very lucky in that I have an established Internet business that pays the bills, so I can work from anywhere in the world. I've been considering heading over to the Philippines and checking that out, but an acquaintance of mine has also got me interested in Brazil.

Either way, I'll be making a decision soon and getting the F out of here. The Philippines seems to have the most relaxed visa regulations, making it possible to stay there almost indefinitely if you work within the system, So that's certainly a big plus ( The lovely ladies are another of course).

Which brings me to my last point: it's tough for a lot of guys to just up and leave the U. S., even though they know in their heart they'll be glad they did and their life will improve once they've done it. So I think people like us should stick together and join forces whenever possible. Traveling the world or relocating to another country can be challenging, but it becomes a lot easier when you have a like-minded "wing man."

So if anyone on here is in a similar situation and would like to compare notes, or potentially even buddy up to travel, please be in touch. I'm open to suggestions.

Finally, I know of written a short novel here as a first post, but I want everyone on this site to know that Winston is 100% right. I have lived abroad and seen the difference in my social life, in how it made me feel inside; and I've also seen the antisocial lame-ass dating scene in the US, and how it undermines a man's confidence and inhibits his ability to simply be himself. It is an absolute shame, and no man should have to live that way.

Thanks for a great site Winston. You're doing a service to all American guys by exposing the limited possibilities for happiness and social connection in the US.

Also going abroad in 2009, Merc

Can't argue with this:

When I was about 12, I saw a news report on TV about "some asshole" (my interpretation of their words) who was helping men from the US meet women in Russia. He praised the fact that they were nice and old fashioned and made much better partners than American raised women. The Russian women they showed on the program made a big impression on me, as there was an extreme difference in their demeanor and attitudes. I had seen prettier American females at that time but those did not have the same kind of sweetness and charm as these girls.

Though I haven't yet been able to visit a foreign country myself but I have met foreign women who have come over here. In high school there was a German foreign exchange student I had a class with. She didn't speak English that well but her and I got along better than I did even with my close friends. Then when I got a job at "Huge Unnamed Coffee shop Chain" after high school, I had a group training session which included a HOT AS HELL Swedish female. Once again, Her and I got along great, while even the ugliest/hottest American girls didn't even want to talk to me long enough to tell me where the closest bridge was that I could jump off of. Later at the same job, I worked with a Russian born woman and an Israeli born woman, both of which were nicer and friendlier towards me than even my own mother. It was a surprise to me that a complete loser/failure with women like me could have a normal fucking conversation with a member of the opposite sex that wasn't at all awkward or uncomfortable. Especially attractive ones such as them.

I've since come across more and more foreign women here and there and the results have been the same. There's something very very wrong with our culture. Of course we all know what that is.

A man who married a Japanese woman:

The fucked up thing Dees, is that until I went to live in Taiwan, I had already been through two divorces, and women were just not talking to me. I actually thought at one point that something was wrong with me. When I got to Taiwan, almost from day one, women were chatting me up, smiling, friendly, sometimes in a giggly childish way when I would talk to them, but never ever snotty or hostile. I could go out and some pretty woman would talk to me, or at least smile at me. It was amazing to me, and it was then that I realized that maybe it wasn't me after all, but the women in America.

I have been asked by several Japanese and other Asian men about why American Women act the way they do. They also notice the general snottiness and meanness of American Women. I'm often asked why they behave that way.

I think this basically sums up the problem:

Good comments overall. I think at least part of the problem is demand and supply. There is a severe shortage of attractive women in the US and lots of marriageable men compared to elsewhere. Our women are first and foremost simply spoiled.