Rapists, their origin.
Written by Shâwñ ßâdÿk
I wanted to add to
this that the author is not condoning rape. He is just
explaining what causes some of the rapists to do what
they do. I'm inclined to believe he's correct because
it's known that many rapists in prison were molested by
grown women while they were still boys. This tells me the
author of this article is on the right track. I just
wanted to state this because apparently most people have
comprehension problems as they cannot seem to understand
the author is not preaching a pro rape sermon!
If a young girl gets brutalized enough by grown men, she will grow up to be messed up in the head and to hate men. And no one really blames her. Yet if a young boy gets verbally humiliated by women and teen-aged girls, then consequently grows up to hate women, well then it's tough shit? What I'm saying is maybe women should be kinder people and then men will be kinder people. Simple logic, something that seems to be sorely lacking in today's people . . . |
Here is my theory;
Introduction: A male can develop into a potential rapist during adolescence while he is still in early psychological development. Now, depending on the environment he is exposed to & the severity of the nastiness of the females he encounters during adolescence will most likely develop him into a potential rapist or not. Step 1: During adolescence females tend to mature far sooner emotionally than males tend to & as a result this gives young teenage females a greater understanding of how the brain works & what "insults" are most harmful to a person's self esteem. While males are learning what pubic hair is, females are beginning to become more & more concerned about their appearance. As a result they will obsess over this for periods & they will either find themselves attractive, or they will find themselves unattractive. Now, those who find themselves to be very attractive will develop an ego & this instills the ability for the female to unintentionally turn certain males into potential rapists. Within the community of young teenage females develops this competition of who is most beautiful & most wanted. Step 2: So, those at the top of the order who are most wanted develop a fierce rivalry which mostly takes place in their minds & their ultimate goal is to attract as many guys as possible while being rude, arrogant & nasty. They want to see how low a guy would go for them. Step 3: A female knows when a guy likes her, & when these females sense a guy likes her, she will think about his insecurity & will target the weaker males. She will wait for him to ask her out, or start talking to her nicely, then she will call him ugly & fat, & a freak, & a loser that no girl wants. The female does this cause she knows she can destroy his self esteem & embarrass him in the most embarrassing way by doing that, & at her age she has this desire to want to be stronger than males, & she knows she cannot physically out strength a male, so she psychologically out strengths a male. This is her way of being victorious. Step 4: Now, after awhile some guys will experience this numerous times, & this is the formula that can develop a male into a potential rapist. He will become severely depressed, he will think he is unattractive, revolting, awful looking, & a hideous monster, & this will be on his mind all the time, & no matter what else he achieves it will be meaningless because we live in a world where appearance is considered most important, & he will think if his appearance is awful, then he is a total failure as a man. He will also feel a huge amount of anger & embarrassment from what those females did to him, & over time this anger becomes stronger & stronger at an exponential rate until it becomes so great he cannot control it any longer. Step 5: The fact that all the females he has encountered in his life & felt attracted to were nasty to him, & they are responsible for his unhappiness as they ruined his self esteem & did so intentionally. Therefore, all he can think of, is the fact no female was nice to him, so he labels ALL females as being like those who were mean to him. Therefore, he develops a strong hatred to wards the female gender. Step 6: He will look at every female, & think they are all the same, that they are all guilty, & that they all must be punished. So, after losing his self esteem, he tries to regain the one thing he believes he still has, & that is his manhood. Therefore, in his mind there is nothing more powerful he can do than raping a female, because he believes he is forcing a female to do something they do not want to do, he thinks his appearance is hideous & he knows that raping a woman means overpowering them physically, & causing them the psychological trauma that resembles the psychological trauma he experiences, & at the time of the rape he feels a victory for when the females were nasty to him, & it relieves his anger to a point. But then the next day, or the next week, that anger returns so he is forced into having to rape again to experience the high that he can only get while raping a female, & this cycle repeats over & over again until he is caught. Correspondence of Maturity: Even when an adult, a male has a distinct psychological weakness compared to females. Females tend to have a better ability than males to reason out any insecurities based on appearance. Also, females have the luxury of being able to hide their imperfections with makeup. Males cannot do this. Therefore, males will tend to be insecure, they will think they are unattractive in appearance, & if they were told they were unattractive by girls like mentioned above on numerous occasions, then they will develop a depression that will never be relieved. Males are seen as the "stronger" gender. Therefore, society says males have to hide their feelings & not be open, so guys will go into a shell & just bottle all their emotions inside. This then causes guys to become so depressed they cannot live with themselves, so they turn into rapists. For them, being rapists is their way of experiencing what normal guys & normal gals experience, it is their way of being a success. Now, this can all be prevented but it needs females along with males to act mature, to unite & to admit that males have emotions & are emotionally weaker than females, it is time that males realized & admitted that they are not dominant in every way. It is time that females stopped trying to compete with males, because many females have this mentality in which they think life is about competing & beating males, & females are fully aware of the emotional advantage they have over males & they use it to full ability to manipulate & hurt males, it is all a game to them. What we need, is for these females to mature & develop some morality & humanity, & begin using their psychological advantage to help males instead of using it to harm males. I am not saying all females are like this, but I will say that both genders have a feeling of wanting to dominate the other gender to some extent without realizing it, it is just some people are obsessed with doing this while others do not care about it. What it comes down to is "education." Our education system is poor, it does not educate our children into learning what they truly need to learn to be happy & enjoy life & be law-abiding citizens who help the world instead of harming it. Schools need to include psychology as a fundamental subject in primary schools (elementary) as it is vital that children learn about psychology before they enter adolescence so that they know what to expect. Self esteem is the backbone of life, without self esteem life is meaningless, painful & useless. Our children need to be giving the education required so that they are confident & proud of themselves, so they feel they are good looking & no worse than anyone else. Then, if everyone was like this, there would be no rapists. The fact is males mature slower & they need to be educated about this because they are unaware of the struggle they will soon battle, they are unaware that during early adolescence their self esteem will be at the mercy of nasty females, & the chances of a male getting through adolescence without being affected in anyway is almost impossible. Boys need to learn about how young teenage females who are attractive & arrogant think & how these females have no respect for the male gender, & how these females are out there to destroy all males in their paths so that they can prevent these females from destroying their self esteem. The fact is, teenage females may enjoy destroying males, but rape victims do not enjoy what these males do in retaliation to what the teenage females did all those years ago. What I am saying is if these teenage females really cared about their own gender & the welfare of all females, they wouldn't develop young males into monsters, but these females do not care about their own gender, they are competing with their own gender, they only care about themselves, they have no heart, no compassion, no empathy, no morality, they are just selfish, evil, inhumane shit bags that have aided in making society so destructive. Now, I am not saying it is OK for these males to go raping females, I am just stating why they do it because they are victims just like the rape victims are. Both the rape victims & the rapists are the victims here in different ways, & we must remember that, we should be condemning the evil teenage females who turned young insecure men into monsters, they are at fault here, they intentionally destroyed young men which unintentionally turned them into monsters, therefore don't just condemn rapists, condemn the teenage females that turned them into rapists. You see, these men had the ability to become successful men, but their ability to do that was taken away from them when insensitive, evil teenage females deliberately took away their life, & yes they are still living, but their life was killed, without self esteem a human has no life, they are just a miserable person who wants to die. I welcome feedback, & it will be interesting to see how many females claim that I am an evil, sick, sexist man for what I stated. I can reassure you that these same women would defend a woman who cut a man's penis off & claim she had to do so cause he was going to force her to have sex with him. Now, sometimes people do things that are unpleasant & not right, but as humans we need to rise above & not lower ourselves to their level. In my opinion, a woman who is at risk of being raped has no right to kill the rapist or kick him in the testicles or use any other excessive force, because she was in a position where she was about to be sexually assaulted, not killed. Now you can argue she feared for her life, but men fear for their lives far more than women do as men are forced into fighting with other men who have the potential to kill them during adolescence, but you don't see these guys using excessive force then claiming self defense. Now, if a male tried to rape a female, she should poke him in the eyes, punch him in the stomach then run & she would get away from him, she does not have to kick him in the testicles, she just needs to poke him in the eyes, & being poked in the eyes is more painful than being kicked in the testicles & it will blind the man allowing the female to run away, therefore it is a more effective move. There is not any situation on this Earth in which a female can be excused for kicking a male in the testicles, as she can defend herself in many other ways & survive. Now, there is not a situation in this world in which a male can be excused for kicking a female in the testicles as there are plenty of ways he can defend himself. Remember, rapists are victims themselves, they experienced something far severe than any rape victim experienced, they experienced something that ended their life when it ended their self esteem, now being raped doesn't cause a female to think she is unattractive, & there is nothing more painful than thinking that you are unattractive, so just remember that, rapists suffer chronically like no one else does. This is where the females show their hypocrisy, as they would be fast to say that if a female hit a man that does not give him the right to hit her as two wrongs don't make a right & as adults a man should be mature enough to not lower himself to such a level. But these same females say if a man tried to rape them they would castrate him & kick him in the testicles, & what that says is the female has double standards, she says it is OK for a female to lower herself to a rapist's level & kick him in the testicles, which is the most embarrassing & psychologically crippling experience any man can go through, in fact worse than what being raped does, & she is saying it is OK for a female to do something that is far worse than rape cause the guy made a mistake as he is destroyed emotionally. The fact is, is many females have double standards, they expect men to take females abuse but if a male abuses a female they consider it acceptable to retaliate with excessive force. The fact is, if a man tries to rape a female, she should just do everything she can to get away, & if she kicks him in the testicles then she cannot be excused for that, in fact she has committed sexual assault herself via excessive force & that makes her worse than the rapist. Now, a blow to the vulva is just as painful as a blow to the testicles, this has been scientifically proven, & kicking another person in the vulva or testicles is sexual assault. Therefore I will be reporting numerous females who confessed to kicking males in the testicles to the police & I will not stop there, I will ensure that they are prosecuted by the law so that justice prevails. I have no tolerance for females who kick males in the testicles, once a female does that she has crossed the line & must be brought to justice, an apology won't work but jail time or being kicked in the vulva does work. |